Shaving off my eyebrows
On the second day of 2025 my true love gave to me: a gout flare up in my left foot. The good news is my cold is somewhat subsiding. I needed some fresh air and can’t go to the gym so I went to MKT and had chia pudding. First world problems.
Had my latest session with Dr. B and was surprised to find how (relatively) positive my outlook on the new year is, all things considered. I could be smiling while walking in front of a two ton pickup but that’s fine. Writing in this blog is proving to be a very effective way of creating more me time that doesn’t involve a credit card, which is very good news. It’s only been a week, but I have been more intentional with what I’ve been pulling out of my closet. Let’s hope I keep it up.
The Where’s My Cane I’m Limping Outfit
Suspiria tee
I love horror in fashion. In my younger years I quietly enjoyed looking like a villain in hiding. These days I’m taking a more literal approach. I found this shirt online. I’ve always been a big proponent of black/white/pink, so this was a no-brainer. I got a lot of compliments on it while in Chicago, of all places.
Fake Chanel (??) Cashmere (??) scarf
So there’s no tag on this guy, and I tried authenticating this scarf online, to no avail. I won’t call it a Chanel scarf, but if it’s fake, it’s extremely impressive. Luxurious to the touch (feels like plush cashmere), generous in proportion, featuring an intricate weave pattern makes this an amazing no-name steal.
I found it on a cold-ass February Sunday in Amsterdam while thrifting with Miles. The size, color and feel were what prompted me to grab it, and it wasn’t until after tying it several different ways around my frigid neck that I spotted the wonky CC logo. I didn’t care if it was real - I loved it, and the sales clerk gave me an additional discount at the till (totaling like $16USD).
Whatever it is, it’s perhaps my most luxe feeling/looking scarf in my closet.
H&M cap
Say what you will about H&M, but I am an avid patron of the house of Hennes & Mauritz. My workhorse basics are all H&M: my stack of black tees, my all-time favorite pair of black denim, and the best skinny ankle trousers (they make amazing women’s pants for men!). These foundational items have lasted me YEARS, with none of them costing more than $25.
I’m always eager to check out their women’s caps during the holidays when they mark them down closer to Christmas and New Years. I usually find one special cap that I’ll wear during the holidays, and this one was on sale for $5. I debuted it at BJ’s when I met with my sister and her family for gift exchanging. The first thing my nephew said to me: “That’s a shiny hat,” to which I rightly said “Duh.”
Topologie bag
I heavily rely on Topologie cords and pouches when I travel. Their Wares system is so functional: carry the cord + pouch as an airport crossbody, then when I’m on the plane I swap the cord to tether my phone to my person, and stow the pouch containing antibac, earplugs, charging cords, and sleeping pills nearby. Plus, it’s just plain fun to adjust the strap length with knots.
Aesthetically, I love how this guy looks like a toy. Anything functional and playful is a keeper in my book.
White leather shoes
The only pair of shoes I purchased on my last Tokyo trip. No name, Made in England, extremely soft white leather, and a sharp silhouette. $28. I like that they look like nurse shoes.
Rick Owens Alice leather jacket
The hazards of window shopping before dinner plans. Found this guy at Saks, in the women’s section, and it perfectly fit (somewhere between a leather shirt and a cropped jacket). The sales woman pointed out it was already on sale but with an additional 50% reduction.
Now, I try to practice the habit of thinking honestly to myself whenever faced with a steep discount: Do you love this item enough that you would’ve purchased it full price? Truth be told, no, not at the retail price, but it feels unbelievable when worn. I showed up at Del Popolo with this guy in a garment bag.
I’ve always loved the world of Rick Owens, but having owned and sold a number of Rick items over the years, I concede that most of that world doesn’t work on me. I’m a disciple of black clothes, but clearly I’m also a fan of mixing things and breaking up an all-black look. Plus, I feel like his clothes would work better on me if I was taller or had long hair (any hair, for that matter). Then again, I could maybe try a Rick Owens look while being completely bald and shaving off my eyebrows. Anyone can be edgy, but that’s not the look I’m after.